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people When it rains it pours
by Heinous6
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(kfreakyk@yahoo.com) on Nov 30, 2004 03:44:28 PM

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Sometimes things are so bad that its funny.
 
I have always noticed that happiness comes in small doses, but bad things never happen one at a time or spread out. I am the lead singer of a metal band and recently one of my guitarists has been slacking off, it's hard to write songs for and manage a band of 5 people all at once. I do this because it is my passion, I have entrusted these 5 men to help me pursue and conquer my dreams. Well he has recently decided that its just not very important to him, to a point we must be understanding, but on the other hand its almost like not really liking your girlfriend but keeping her around anyway just because you feel bad. So he has been stringing us along knowing all this time that he was planning on quitting guitar to pursue a college education in music theory and production, although most of us know that having a degree doesn't really match up to having musical experience. Regardless he quit when there are many important shows coming up in the near future. This depresses and angers me, but I move on knowing that we can replace him and it shouldn't be too hard to do so.

Not a day before this I took out a girl that I have been seeing that I have really fallen in love with, and in words she has expressed the same to me. I took her to see a friend's band of mine; she is also a singer looking for a metal band to front for. She had told me some time ago that she didn't want to be anyone's girlfriend, although in the time since then we have been having excellent sex and seeing each other very often. Well I must have gotten the wrong impression because when I took her into the scene she kind of acted like I was just a friend while she talked to some guy about a band he knew that needed a new singer. This of course angers me greatly, but I hold it in knowing that it's obviously not the guy's fault. So I wait till we go home, after waiting 2 hours because our ride ran out of gas and caused us to find a ride home from one of the guitar players in the band. We get back and I express my discontentment, and she replies, "I'm not acting like your girlfriend because I'm not". I must have missed something, maybe it makes sense and I just don't speak this language, but in any regard it made me furious. I yelled at her and asked her what the point was and if we were supposed to be just fuck buddies or whatever. She proceeded to call me a label whore for wanting her to be my girlfriend, how cliche'. While being cliche' I will just say, "nice guys finish last". This makes me livid but I continue on anyway.

Besides all of this I am in a financial slump, because of high fees for reasons that even after reading about I couldn't grasp. Point is that the day after the guitarist quit, I unknowingly make a "prohibited turn", as stated by the police officer that pulled me over and gave me a 130 dollar ticket, grand.

In a down state I look for comfort in my close friend who tells me that I am being a bitch and I'm acting ridiculous. Although about six months ago, before I auditioned him for my band, he had just divorced his wife and was probably the most socially abrasive person I had ever met. I was there to help him through it and now he tells me that I'm acting like he used to and it's not cool. Yeah no shit, but thank you for your support in my time of need, your efforts will be remembered.

I can surely roll with the punches and sooner or later I will be ok but...god damn it. There are plenty of people out there who I'm sure have it worse off, but I'm not them, I can only express how I am feeling......bitter.

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    on Nov 30, 2004 06:34:17 PM
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    semantics
    by bobby(shutyourface@irule.com)
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    few things piss me off worse then the semantics surrounding relationships.

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    notice that nowhere does it say anything about commitment. people need to get back to the basic principles of relating to one another, like trust, respect, etc. all these categories of relating are ridiculous. the only purpose it seems to serve is justifying selfish behavior.
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      Yes, but
      by Leighto
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      on Dec 7, 2004 09:35:52 AM
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      the accepted definition and connotation of a word are often more powerful than the dictionary meaning. If I say "bitch," the first thing that comes to mind isn't a female dog, for much of America. And on the exact same token, "relationship" suggests - almost implies - commitment.
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        it's true
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        on Dec 7, 2004 09:48:23 AM
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        it does imply commitment to most people. and commitment implies respect and trust to most people, i hope.
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          Loop holes
          by Heinous6(kfreakyk@yahoo.com)
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          on Dec 7, 2004 03:14:21 PM
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          I don't see how calling someone your girlfriend or boyfriend is seen as a label. It seems to me to just be another use of the word for purposes of commitment. You can have a relationship with anyone but when "relationship" is used in the context of a man and a woman, not as friends, it should automatically be assumed that those two people are an item. Using the term "relationship" in a less serious way seems to be just a loophole or a way to avoid commitment.
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            Lets back up the cart and unhitch the horse.

            Red flag phrase: "it should automatically be assumed". Any time you find yourself saying that, realize that you are completely full of shit. They dont say "assume makes an ass out of u and me" for nothing.

            Also, "are an item" is a totally meaningless term even if explicity stated, let alone when under assumption.

            Using the term "relationship" in a less serious way seems to be just a loophole or a way to avoid commitment.

            Oh yeah? Maybe to 7th graders that's true, but to those of us who live in a world full of real people, the term "relationship" is intentionally malleable BECAUSE THERE ARE THOUSANDS OF KINDS OF RELATIONSHIPS. Guess what: you have a relationship with everyone you've ever spoken to, even if that relationship is a casual speaking one. Does that mean you're committed to them?

            Everyone's chosen relationship is defined by THOSE 2 PEOPLE AND NO ONE ELSE. If they want to only stick spoons up each others asses and fuck complete strangers in portapottys on the weekend, that's their choice but its no more or less of a "relationship" than Joe and Jane eating at Dennys every weekend.

            This loophole bullshit is just your narrow-viewed way of putting people in the "good people" or "bad people" bucket and living a sheltered life. People may not want or expect what you do, and you'd better get used to that.
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              I would just like to say
              by TheChisa(come@me.bro)
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              that you have no idea how relevent this is to my relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ.
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              by Heinous6(kfreakyk@yahoo.com)
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              I guess you must have only read what you wanted to read and further took it as you wanted to take it. If living a sheltered life means not being a fucking slut or a "bad person" then you can count me in. If being real means being untrue then you can have that too. Sure everyone you speak to does have a relationship with you, but I dont fuck everyone I talk to, I dont know about you. You cant always assume that the word assume always means the same thing.
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                Infantile.
                by bean
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                You missed the point completely.

                Try not thinking about your crotch and other people's crotchs for a second and re-read what was written. Not everything in life boils down to fucking or not fucking. And if think it does, well than you better call a therapist, because you will have relationships issues for the rest of your life with that viewpoint. It is people who only think that their definition is valid that cause the whole problem.
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