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general Disclosure revisited
by Thwack
gfd messages
(trainedfighter@headbutt.net) on Mar 19, 2005 08:29:25 AM

If you were logged in, you could vote for this story!

Bitches be harshing my cool.
 
While it may surprise some of you that Thwack works with children, I'm currently employed at a local daycare, which is pretty much the only place that can give he workable hours with my completely ridiculous school schedule. I love my work; I'm in school to become a pediatric therapist, and being around kids every day is a wonderful way to kill stress and practice my skills.
Until Joan.
Joan worked in the infant room with me. From the get-go it was made clear that her opinion was that men could not care for babies. "No problem," I thought to myself. I can prove her wrong. And prove I did. For the next several months I gained the trust of the kids, did a great job of keeping them happy as well as helping them grow. After a while, though, I noticed something. Joan wasn't playing along. When you prove somebody wrong, their opinion of you is supposed to change. Joan wouldn't budge. I was still the insensitive male, and she was still Queen of the shitpile.
Well, miracle of miracles, Joan finally got fired, mostly because she was a raving fucking lunatic. She and another woman got into a huge fight in the room, right on top of the kids. Bad juju. I breathed a sigh of relief. My nemesis was gone. Those who remained had no issue with me, and were pretty nice ladies. Okay...we'll just fill Joan's position and move on.

Enter Lois.

Fuck.

This is Lois' first day. She walks into the baby room, looks at me, and exclaims "A BOY works here?" Yes, ma'am, and I manage to do it without all these darned Y chromosomes getting in the way. I'm a fucking miracle. I bite my teeth and try my best to chalk it up to simple surprise. I realize I'm not something you see every day, but if I walked into an interview at a hospital and said "Wow, girls can work in hospital administration!?" I'd probably get tossed out so hard I'd bounce.

Lois is AWFUL with the kids. There are two babies in the room who are pretty big. A 35 pound 11 month old is nothing to scoff at, but it's also not something you need to rip on him for all day. She made constant comments and fat jokes, and they really offended me. Not because I'm fat; the fuckpunching is still keeping me fairly trim, but because she's supposed to be there to love those kids and make them happy. Also, any time a kid came in with any sort of problem, Lois acts like it's Armageddon. We had a kid come in with an apnea monitor. Just a little velcro strap with a sensor connected to a box. Had to wear it for 2 weeks. Lois felt that he shouldn't be ALLOWED TO COME TO THE DAYCARE. Going against my every instinct, I allowed this myopic, lazy bitch to live.

Well, fast forward to the reason for my rant. I finally got to the point where I'd had enough. While working with a child on the floor, he started to yell a little bit. He doesn't like being on his belly, but rather than just pick him up, I first tried to calm him down in that position so we could play. Tummy time is really developmentally important, and he was getting none. I had him there for maybe 30 seconds, crying. Lois flips out and essentially accuses me of child abuse. I calmly try to explain to her my reasoning for not just scooping him up, and she'll hear none of it. I'm just bad, and, of course, she was right: Boys can't take care of babies.

Not wanting to create a larger scene (the baby in question cried infinitely more from her yelling than from being on his tummy for a little bit) I left the room and found my supervisor, who told me "It's just a male-female difference. You have a different way of doing things." Well, yeah, you're right. But it's not because I'm a guy. It's because I'm a guy with several years of education in this area. She raised a kid who, from listening to her stories, moved as far away from her as possible as soon as he graduated high school. Was she his motivation? I don't know. Maybe he weighed a lot and got sick of hearing about it.

My supervisor wants me to apologize to this woman. Fat fucking chance. The day after the incident, I decided I'd try to act like a big boy and go talk to her about the situation. After I left the room, she told this kid's mom that I had been being mean to her son, and that I was "holding him down on the floor." I went in, calmly explained what I had been doing yesterday, and told her I didn't appreciate the way she acted, or the fact that she gave a biased account to a parent, who was now very concerned (unnecessarily) about the safety of her child. She responded by insulting my gender again. I responded by leaving again.

WHY ISN'T THIS WOMAN FIRED!????? If I made one comment to one woman in that place, if I so much as called someone "sweetheart" I'd be out on my fucking ass! They keep hiring ball-busting, untrained, pigheaded bitches! I work with Gribble!

Fucking double standards.

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    I
    by kko
    gfd messages
    on Mar 19, 2005 02:59:40 PM
    (#18033)
    gave this a 10.

    Fuck double standards.
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    Way to post it thrice
    by kraken
    gfd messages
    on Mar 19, 2005 03:13:00 PM
    (#18034)
    Once is never enough. Even twice is for pussies.
    [Reply to this comment]
    WOW
    by bean
    gfd messages
    on Mar 19, 2005 03:38:10 PM
    (#18035)
    First, let me praise you for not fuckpunching this woman. You would probably be replaced by a crueler harpy.

    Day Care really scares me. It's a huge trust investment. Leaving your offspring with strangers in the most developmental stages of their life. That I just can't comprehend. But situations like this just worsen it.

    The double standard has got to stop. A good child care provider is a good child care provider. It should not matter what is or is not dangling between the legs. But the truth is, and you know, that their is a double standard and society readily encourages it.

    I'd love to tell you to complain to your boss and take this all the way to the top but in all honesty, nothing will be done. You'd probably lose your job and be unable to find another one in town in day care. It doesn't mean you can't make this woman's life a living hell though.
    [Reply to this comment]
      Damn
      by Thwack(trainedfighter@headbutt.net)
      gfd messages
      on Mar 19, 2005 09:29:34 PM
      (#18037)
      Nice to get a positive response. Yeah, it does fucking suck. As it stands, I am making her crazy. She launched into me the other day, telling me "I didn't go to school but I know this and I know that (none of the "I know" statements was the least bit correct), and I replied "for someone who doesn't know much, you sure seem to know a lot." That got taken to the boss, who came to me. I told her "If you deal with it for me, I won't deal with it any more." My boss is actually a pretty great lady, but she's about as assertive as strained peas. I have to kick her in the ass in order to get her to kick someone else's ass.

      I swear to God, if I hear "Typical male" one more time from some vapid little bitch that would have a coronary if I were to refer to "women drivers", etc. I will resume my fuckpunchery post haste.
      [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
      AsharSeo
      by AsharSeo(AsharSeo)
      gfd messages
      on Mar 17, 2019 05:16:41 AM
      (#35598)
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    10
    by Spanker(munsterinthedark@hotmail.com)
    gfd messagesAIM
    on Mar 20, 2005 03:38:06 AM
    (#18038)
    And kudos to you for having patience with that type of bullshit, because it seems it was less about keeping your job and more about the kids/civility/rationality.

    I can't say I've got first-hand whatnot, but I do know I get pissed off when I hear people take a situation and vilify the other side; that drives me fucking crazy.
    [Reply to this comment]
    get her fired
    by mythandros(Suck a Fuck)
    gfd messages
    on Mar 21, 2005 12:06:15 PM
    (#18056)
    It's going to be her or you and I'd rather see her gone.

    Good luck.
    [Reply to this comment]
    Thwack, darlin'
    by SlickyPink(suckittrebek@gfdchatrawks.com)
    gfd messagesAIM
    on Mar 21, 2005 08:15:18 PM
    (#18067)
    ...you're being discriminated against. Do me a favor and when she says something, remove a pad of paper and a pen from your pocket and ask her to repeat, then look at the clock and write down the date/time.

    THEN as a fun exercise...call your local EEOC office and ask them about standards of proof for discrimination claims and whether or not hostile speech by a coworker counts. It will make you feel better if nothing else...and it will give you super secret psychic impotence counter...because you can certainly mention the results to your coworker.
    [Reply to this comment]
      Thanks for the advice
      by Thwack(trainedfighter@headbutt.net)
      gfd messages
      on Mar 21, 2005 11:24:14 PM
      (#18069)
      already documented it, the day of. I told my boss if it happened again I'd contact a lawyer. She wasn't pleased. Regardless, I'm job hunting. With luck, this should be over soon.
      [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
        Fucking no dude.
        by mythandros(Suck a Fuck)
        gfd messages
        on Mar 22, 2005 09:43:17 AM
        (#18071)
        Get HER fired and keep your job. You did nothing wrong that you should have to leave.
        [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
          It's not that great a job
          by Thwack(trainedfighter@headbutt.net)
          gfd messages
          on Mar 22, 2005 02:03:34 PM
          (#18080)
          I like the kids, but the sewing circle is a bit much for me to deal with. I'm gonna find a good manual labor job, lose myself in a testosterone-rich work setting for a year (good meathead work) till I finish school, then start my career, where I can DEMAND a bit of respect.
          [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
            This is acceptable.
            by mythandros(Suck a Fuck)
            gfd messages
            on Mar 22, 2005 02:38:26 PM
            (#18082)
            I shall permit it. Testosterone rich atmospheres are so relaxing too. I love em.
            [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
            At least heart
            by splansing(suck it)
            gfd messages
            on Mar 25, 2005 02:22:09 PM
            (#18129)
            you could do your community a favor, then, if you're planning on bailing out.

            I suggest that you put that microcassette recorder to use. All it will take is a few of these sexist comments on tape and you can march into your supervisor's office and grab him/her by the proverbial nutsack.

            "Fire that bitch now, or at least force her to take some sort of gender sensitivity training, or I'm filing a discrimination lawsuit."

            It's community service, plain and simple. Either they comply, and do what they are legally obligated to do in cases where someone is being discriminated against, or you sue them blind. Either way, something good has happened. First of all, they probably won't be so blind to shit like this going on under their noses in the future. Second, either this witch is taken in and tamed a little bit, or she's fired. Fired, the workplace is improved. Mandatory humiliating training, she might not be such a vocal bitch the next time this comes up, and will swallow her own shittiness instead. Both are, again, community service.

            And if they won't comply with your reasonable demands, then your lawsuit can force them to, while damaging them financially in the process and padding your own wallet. Why is this a community service? Think about it: who is going to send their kids to a day-care center that is being sued by its own employees for being insensitive and discriminatory? Six to twelve months later, the place is shut down and parents are going somewhere else.

            God, I want to find this cunt and kick her right in the tits. This business of dragging you through the mud to the parents while you're out of the room... She should just be fired outright for that shit. Any supervisor with an IQ over 60 ought to know that you can't allow that kind of shit if you want to stay in business.

            I guess my frustration at hearing this is a measure of the quality of your post.
            [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
              The wrong people suffer, then.
              by Thwack(trainedfighter@headbutt.net)
              gfd messages
              on Mar 25, 2005 09:34:04 PM
              (#18137)
              The day care is a not-for-profit, the kids are great, the parents are mostly pretty good, and the majority of the staff are pretty good. I'm not gonna bring down 100 good people just to put one old bitch in her place, but I'll be damned if I apologize. Right now she has to suffer through me being there, doing what I please with the kids, and not being able to say anything for fear of losing her job. I like having her on the end of that leash.
              [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
    A pediatric therapist. heart
    by TheChisa(come@me.bro)
    gfd messages
    on Apr 2, 2005 12:10:58 PM
    (#18223)
    I eagerly await your first GFD about fuckpunching a four year old boy.
    [Reply to this comment]
      mmm...troll. crybabycrybabycrybaby
      by Thwack(trainedfighter@headbutt.net)
      gfd messages
      on Apr 3, 2005 03:48:54 AM
      (#18234)
      You got me good there. You'll beat off to that one later, I'm sure. "Man, he couldn't say NOTHIN to that!" *fap fap fap*

      I guess I should just let it be. This is the only chance a pissant like you will ever get to take an unanswered shot at someone better than you. Jokes about fucking kids. Brilliant.
      [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
        Thwack, gold stargold star
        by zaxon(huk~)
        gfd messagesMSN
        on Apr 3, 2005 10:43:53 AM
        (#18236)
        Your complete cluelessness brings me no end of joy and laughter. Please keep up the good work.
        [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
          Oh I get it just fine crybabycrybabycrybaby
          by Thwack(trainedfighter@headbutt.net)
          gfd messages
          on Apr 3, 2005 11:41:19 AM
          (#18237)
          This is a place for trolls and elitits, with an occasional splash of GFD thrown in. Where fat girls can call me gay, but I'm the meathead. Where I make a logical argument, and throwing "whiney little bitch" back at me is seen as superior debate. Where for once, in your miserable lives, you misfits get to be the majority, and "stick it" to all us normal types.

          It isn't working.
          [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
            An encore! heartheartheartheart
            by zaxon(huk~)
            gfd messagesMSN
            on Apr 3, 2005 12:59:57 PM
            (#18238)
            Thank you :-)

            While I enjoy the "I hate it so much here that I will post nonstop and never leave" thing, you've kind of been replaced in that department by splansing. I really liked that part in your previous response where you said you were gonna be noble and not respond, though. Could you do more of that type of thing please?

            Thank you again, looking forward to more of your efforts :-)
            [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
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              gfd messages
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              (#45968)
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              [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
            i've been waiting heart
            by raven(duz ur face hurt its killin me)
            gfd messagesAIM
            on Apr 3, 2005 07:39:41 PM
            (#18243)
            i've been waiting for your first social-critique-of-gfd-that-is-blatantly-swimming-in-self-pity comment since the beginning of "thwack vs. the internet, round II." now that it's here, i have to confess something very special to you. we all have been conversing nonstop about you since you left, and we have spent countless hours praying for your return. as our official self-appointed whipping boy of gfd, it just wasn't the same without you. so stop crying, thwack. we luhluhluh<3 you.

            PSYCH! PINCH POKE U OWE ME A COKE, you masochistic little crusader, you!
            [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
              But that's the thing... thumbs upcrybaby
              by Thwack(trainedfighter@headbutt.net)
              gfd messages
              on Apr 4, 2005 07:03:54 AM
              (#18246)
              This isn't a self-pity thing at all. Most of you have completely left me alone since I came back. No big thing. Bean, however, clearly DIDN'T let go of our previous encounters here. The first sign of trouble, she's spewing equal parts "fag" and "whiney little bitch". All I did was comment on her story. Was it nice and friendly? Not at all, but how much of the shit on this site is?
              [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
                Wah! thumbs up
                by bean
                gfd messages
                on Apr 4, 2005 09:56:09 AM
                (#18248)
                Oh cry me a river you FAG!

                An asshole is an asshole and will always be an asshole.

                Didn't you spout off some rhetoric shit like that? Just because you run away and hope to return like the prodigal son doesn't mean it's gonna happen kid. And if you throw shit, expect to get shit.

                Get over it.
                [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
                  I don't mind getting shit. gold starcrybaby
                  by Thwack(trainedfighter@headbutt.net)
                  gfd messages
                  on Apr 4, 2005 12:46:33 PM
                  (#18251)
                  Just don't be a fucking hypocrite. Calling me insensitive and then calling me a fag is fucking stupid.Telling me to get over the past and then yelling "cum dumpster" is fucking stupid. Being fat, then whining about fatty foods is fucking stupid. You're fat, and I'm going to comment on it.

                  Get over it.
                  [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
                    An additional note: dunce
                    by Thwack(trainedfighter@headbutt.net)
                    gfd messages
                    on Apr 4, 2005 12:59:09 PM
                    (#18252)
                    editing my fucking posts is fucking stupid.
                    [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
                      An additional note: gold star
                      by cxreg(cxreg@godfuckingdamnit.com)
                      gfd messagesAIM
                      on Apr 4, 2005 04:10:09 PM
                      (#18255)
                      No one edits your posts
                      [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
                        And you're the biggest pussy in here. heartcrybabycrybaby
                        by Thwack(trainedfighter@headbutt.net)
                        gfd messages
                        on Apr 5, 2005 12:17:15 AM
                        (#18274)
                        You know damn well you're doing something, but you're too much of a loser to just say it. Are you this much of a pathetic weakling in every aspect of your life?
                        [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
                          No, dipshit gold stargold star
                          by cxreg(cxreg@godfuckingdamnit.com)
                          gfd messagesAIM
                          on Apr 5, 2005 12:55:16 AM
                          (#18275)
                          You're simply stupid and/or illiterate. This has been explained to you numerous times, you're just too god damn dense to understand it. But no one ever expected any more from you, so way to live up to expectations.

                          Read my lips:

                          No
                          one
                          edits
                          your
                          posts.
                          [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
                            Then explain crybaby
                            by Thwack(trainedfighter@headbutt.net)
                            gfd messages
                            on Apr 6, 2005 02:20:20 AM
                            (#18281)
                            How my posts are not the same as when I typed them? I'm quite sure my eyes work, and I'm quite sure that what's on the screen is different from what was there when I clicked "Submit comment." Furthermore, the phrase substituted for various things I say has been changed MULTIPLE times, indicating a repeat offender.
                            You don't want to explain it because I'm right. You're still running. God, I have no fucking respect for pussies like you. I know you hate me, but you're too chickenshit to take it up with me in any sort of assertive manner. Fucking with my posts is something I'd expect from a 9 year old on a power trip. How old are you again?
                            [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
                              Look, man
                              by Spanker(munsterinthedark@hotmail.com)
                              gfd messagesAIM
                              on Apr 6, 2005 05:46:37 AM
                              (#18282)
                              Very few, if any internet arguments exemplify assertiveness, or any other real-world quality; these things just don't transfer that way.
                              Secondly, wasn't Kraken the one who switched it before?
                              None of your posts recently have said anything stupid, so I fail to see where cxreg is actually trying to accomplish anything by supposedly changing your posts.
                              Doesn't make sense
                              [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
                                Grudge much?
                                by bean
                                gfd messages
                                on Apr 6, 2005 09:51:34 AM
                                (#18284)
                                Too bad Thwack's a worse hypocrite than me. HAHAHAHAHA!
                                [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
                                A word from the narrator thumbs upheartheartheart
                                by cxreg(cxreg@godfuckingdamnit.com)
                                gfd messagesAIM
                                on Apr 7, 2005 06:22:51 PM
                                (#18300)
                                Once upon a time, there was a meathead. The meathead thought he was amusing. No one else thought this. Every single thing the meathead posted contained the phrase "trained fighter". Woe spread throughout the land.

                                Code was added to All Powerful Posting Engine to replace the words "trained fighter" with one of several amusing phrases. There was much laughter and rejoicing. The meathead wept. The meathead tossed accusations that people were following his posts and editing them. The meathead was informed otherwise, and more laughs were had. The meathead continued to ignore the facts, and toss wild accusations. Every time the meathead posted the forbidden words, he was enraged and used phrases like "I would stop saying it but you won't let me!" Eventually, the meathead left.

                                Many months later, the meathead reappeared, and upon discovering that the code in the All Powerful Posting Engine still existed, he resumed tossing Wild Accusations, thus proving that meat has no capacity for rational thought or memory.

                                The End
                                [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
                          Jesus. heartheart
                          by GMFTatsujin(Ask and ye shall receive)
                          gfd messagesAIM
                          on Apr 6, 2005 09:30:06 AM
                          (#18283)
                          This is a revelation? Even Narbuckle knows csreg is a pussy. Get with the program.
                          [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
                      phase II: initiated
                      by raven(duz ur face hurt its killin me)
                      gfd messagesAIM
                      on Apr 4, 2005 11:13:27 PM
                      (#18268)
                      wild accusations!
                      [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
                        No wild accusations here. dunce
                        by Thwack(trainedfighter@headbutt.net)
                        gfd messages
                        on Apr 5, 2005 12:03:10 AM
                        (#18273)
                        I don't pretend to know how it works, because that stuff is not my forte', but I didn't type "cum dumpster" in between the quotation marks, and now it says cum dumpster. Someone did something that changed that post. However it works, it came from something other than my fingers. That's fucking with my posts.
                        [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
            I think maybe it's hopeless, but... crybabyduncedunce
            by splansing(suck it)
            gfd messages
            on Apr 4, 2005 03:17:19 PM
            (#18254)
            You'd think people would get used to the fact that I'm a vitriolic sonofabitch bastard motherfucker (at least on this board, which seemed appropriate to me, given the www.godfuckingdamnit.com URL), and just take it with a grain of salt. But they really don't seem to, do they? Not really taking things in the spirit of a board constructed for bitter cynical angry motherfuckers disgusted with stupidity and hypocrisy, I'd say. Then again, maybe a board named godfuckingdamnit.com is misleading, and it should be called, "Me-and-my-buddies-stroking-each-other-off.com" This business of telling people to go away and this isn't what the board is for and whine and bitch... Let the board be what it is. There is no reason it can't benefit from the free-floating hostility of a couple of malcontents who enjoy sharpening their logic and language skills by being contrary and causing trouble.
            [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
              You're still here, aren't you? gold star
              by cxreg(cxreg@godfuckingdamnit.com)
              gfd messagesAIM
              on Apr 8, 2005 07:55:22 PM
              (#18304)
              If this was Me-and-my-buddies-stroking-each-other-off.com, you'd have been banned 20 minutes into your first day here. Why do you keep looking for validation? If you want to be contrary and cause trouble, fine, but quit bitching about people giving you a hard time. It's called causing trouble for a reason.
              [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
                I don't mind crybabycrybaby
                by splansing(suck it)
                gfd messages
                on Apr 11, 2005 02:07:56 PM
                (#18326)
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                  because nothing you've ever posted is hypocritical nonsense. Why are you stuck on this pedantic bullshit about Atkins? No one defended the stupid trend, and no one CARED about it until you continued to raise the stupid argument, all of which is caused by your poor reading comprehension, 20 times.

                  You don't care what anyone thinks about you? Ok, then shut the fuck up and stop crying about when people will "get used to the fact" that you're just as pointless and hypocritical as anyone else. Stop being a little bitch about it.

                  What is so fucking hard to understand about what I asked you? You keep putting up the "poor fucking me" posts about how you're misunderstood, and then writing off anyone who calls you on it by flinging around superficial insults and claiming you "tear them to pieces" when you have yet to do that a single fucking time. I'm sure this comment will receive nothing other than more of the same. I think YOU are the one who doesn't understand the concept of needing validation. Clearly you are suffering from low self esteem. The sooner you come to grips with that, the better off you'll be. But it's ok. Jesus still loves you.
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                    The Atkins comment was at the heart of one of the better group tirades that I was commenting on, so that's why I made reference to it. If you want to believe my reading comprehension is the issue, then go ahead. Personally, I think I read it and understood it just fine. Every response to my initial comment went right for the bullshit, blowing past the simple fact that the initial post betrayed bean's true attitude towards the Atkins diet, and telling me that I was an asshole for not just accepting that she meant exactly the opposite of what she said.

                    Whatever.

                    I guess I just don't know how to read.

                    I'm going to have to get myself another box of tissues, because I am definitely crying. In fact, I couldn't sleep last night over this.

                    I will try to come to grips with my low self-esteem, so that I can be better off. Thanks for the useless off-the-shelf water cooler analysis, Dr. Phil. How ordinary of you to know just enough about psychology to confuse the fuck out of yourself.
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                      ... that I'm the one the wrote it, maybe you should have asked me what I meant instead of throwing a hissy fit over some fad diet.

                      I think cxreg hit the nail dead on.

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