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relationships Dept. of Corrections? More like Dept. of Separations!
by jayleigh
gfd messagesAIMYahoo
(fuckyou@dontbugme.com) on Mar 20, 2005 06:12:30 PM

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I know I may be just asking to get flamed for this little gfd, but what the hell. I don't care because it's been bothering me and I still gotta get this off my chest. You see, I've been tyring to locate my incarcerated boyfriend for about three weeks now.
 
He and I were both arrested on the same day, at the same time, and initially both sent to the same city jail. It was a few days later that the actual separation took place. Since the jail we were in doesn't house female inmates for very long (not more than a few days) I was sent to the regional jail after about four days. It was there that I sat for a little over two weeks until my preliminary hearing. Since I was also incarcerated, I had no way of finding out if he was still in the city jail or whether he had been transferred to another facility, nor was I able to write him because here you can't send letters from one inmate to another unless they are in your immediate family.

So I waited until I was released and immediately got to work on trying to find out where he was so I could write to him. It was that day that I learned that he had been transferred out of the city jail and sent to a jail in another city that he apparently had outstanding warrants in. The only problem with this was that I had no idea what city to look for him in. Desperate at this point, I went to the website for the state Department of Corrections. They have an inmate locator database that you enter the person's information and they supposedly tell you what facility they are in and sometimes it even tells you their expected release date.

It would have been as simple as that, had he been in the database. It turns out he is not. Ok, no problem, I think to myself because there also on the website is a phone number for the Dept. with instructions on how to get in touch with an operator.

I called them the first week I was out. The person on the line told me that, although his name is in the system, none of the other information I need is yet available, and to call back next week. I call the next week and I am told the same thing by another operator.

I'm now on the third week of trying to get at least an address so that I can write him because I'm sure that he's thinking that my not keeping in touch is my way of breaking up with him, when this couldn't be any farther from the truth.

To complicate matters even more, when I was released I had to move back in with my ex-husband because I didn't have an address at the time I got arrested. So the whole time I'm doing my searching, this prick is looking over my shoulder noticing that I am not having any luck in trying to salvage what is left of a relationship that I obviously value very much. So now he has decided to take advantage of that by trying to get me to be with him again. In the last two or three days he has begged me to have sex with him at least nine times. Now, I wouldn't have a problem with that if it weren't for the fact that one of the main reasons I left his ass in the first place was because the sex was terrible.

He seems to take delight in the fact that I am having such difficulty getting in touch with him and has used the opportunity to offer up his tired-out little pecker as if I want that.

So every Monday morning after my pre-trial probation appointment I call them up and see if he's got enough info about him in the computer so that I can write him and tell him that, no, I did not forget about him or dismiss him completely. Meanwhile, the time is passing by and there's some weasel with a tiny dick trying to get me to give up.

GOD FUCKING DAMNIT.

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    So pray tell
    by kraken
    gfd messages
    on Mar 20, 2005 06:17:22 PM
    (#18041)
    what stupid things did you do to get the both of you arrested? Also, what dumbass things did he do and run on for the outstanding warrants?
    [Reply to this comment]
      that really doesn't matter at this point,
      by jayleigh(fuckyou@dontbugme.com)
      gfd messagesAIMYahoo
      on Mar 20, 2005 06:46:54 PM
      (#18042)
      now does it? I'm not going to tell you because you kind of don't need to know.
      [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
        Yes it does
        by kraken
        gfd messages
        on Mar 20, 2005 07:12:39 PM
        (#18044)
        Because I have no sympathy for events which transpired due to your own blinding stupidity. However if the events were beyond your control, there may be a sliver of hope.

        Example reason for being arrested that I would consider 'ok':
        "We were standing outside the courthouse with signs protesting X, and the police came and arrested us."

        Example reason for being arrested that I would consider 'not ok':
        "We were beating the shit out of each other one night and the neighbors called the cops."

        Does he have a lawyer? If he does, speak to the lawyer. Have him file a writ of habeus corpus if he can't get an answer on where the guy is. If he doesn't have a lawyer, hire one for him. The problem with your position is that unless you live in a common-law marriage state and you've been living together long enough to be considered married, "I'm his girlfriend" has no real legal standing.
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    Maybe
    by SatanSpawn
    gfd messages
    on Mar 20, 2005 07:04:58 PM
    (#18043)
    it's "God's" way of telling you you keep down that road you'll get REALLY fucked up?

    Did you ever tell your ex how to improve? How you like to be touched and stroked? My ex never did that. She lay there like a damn corpse and I soon lost interest. Fucking the dead ain't fun. My gf tells me what she likes and what she doesn't and the sex is awesome. Maybe the fault isn't his, maybe it's yours.
    [Reply to this comment]
    Lordy. gold starheartdunce
    by Thwack(trainedfighter@headbutt.net)
    gfd messages
    on Mar 21, 2005 08:32:58 AM
    (#18048)
    You should be reunited, then shot.
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    Found him. heartheart
    by zaxon(huk~)
    gfd messagesMSN
    on Mar 21, 2005 10:13:15 AM
    (#18049)
    http://jail.lfucg.com/services/offenders/offenderdetails/default.asp?inmateid=337
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    fucking cops poop
    by lbrtylvr
    gfd messages
    on Mar 21, 2005 11:43:49 AM
    (#18053)
    the police dept, the probation dept, and/or the dept. of corrections does not give a flying fuck about you, your boyfriend or, your ex's dried up genetalia. they have one mission and one mission only. that, of course is getting as many people as possible sucked into their system and keeping them there. like rapists and other predators, they feed on the misery of others, the fact that you are distressed by not being able to find your BF is a source of pleasure for them. these are all subhuman assholes who were never able to make it to school with their lunch money and, now that they have a badge and a little (self-percieved) power they feel that they have the right to treat the rest of us like shit. i wouldn't expect much from them. obviously this person has been ran through the system a few times and hopefully is smart enough to be aware that it's takes awhile for the mail to catch-up. you say that you didn't have an address when you got busted, why would you hook up with a homeless guy? and why would an address suddenly become important now? if i were your boyfriend and i found that you went running to the ex hubby when the going got a little rough, i would drop you like a bad fucking habit. weak, very weak. i had some sympathy going for you til then.
    [Reply to this comment]
      silly little cocky man... crybaby
      by jayleigh(fuckyou@dontbugme.com)
      gfd messagesAIMYahoo
      on Mar 21, 2005 12:00:28 PM
      (#18055)
      "and why would an address suddenly become important now?"

      the address was important because without one I would still be sitting in jail until my trial which isn't until next month.

      "if i were your boyfriend and i found that you went running to the ex hubby when the going got a little rough, i would drop you like a bad fucking habit. weak, very weak. i had some sympathy going for you til then."

      that was the only place I had to go, and like I said earlier, I have NO INTENTION WHATSOEVER to get back together with him.
      [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
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          what's your problem? mr yuk
          by jayleigh(fuckyou@dontbugme.com)
          gfd messagesAIMYahoo
          on Mar 23, 2005 01:17:06 PM
          (#18090)
          I hate to burst your bubble but the above scenario isn't going to happen, becase he's possibly looking at serving multiple years of time. And if you're really this rude in real life, you probably have trouble in everyday social situations. I hope everybody who says to their face that they are your friend secretly hates you and is plotting your slow painful death. Have a nice day and inspect your food carefully, loose cannon.
          [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
            Actually gold starheart
            by Spanker(munsterinthedark@hotmail.com)
            gfd messagesAIM
            on Mar 23, 2005 10:13:46 PM
            (#18096)
            it's you who evidently have trouble in everyday social situations.
            That's why you went to jail.
            [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
            no problems here, i'm not the one who is out on bail.
            by lbrtylvr
            gfd messages
            on Mar 24, 2005 11:01:08 AM
            (#18108)
            you call me names and then say i'm rude when i respond in kind? you needn't worry about bursting my bubble, i would need to give a fuck about you or your situation for that to be possible. like i said, i had a little sympathy going for you at first (having had my share of scrapes with the legal system) but, the more shit that you write on here, the more you just sound like a weak, whining, self pitying bitch. you are going to have a very hard time in jail when you get sentenced for whatever stupidity you allowed yourself to get talked into. i would be surprised if you don't skip out before court and lose the "ex's" bail money.
            [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
              just shows you how little you know about the situation
              by jayleigh(fuckyou@dontbugme.com)
              gfd messagesAIMYahoo
              on Mar 25, 2005 02:10:23 PM
              (#18128)
              First of all nobody had to pay to get me out of jail. The judge issued a PR bond. That means that I was released on my own recognizance. Second of all, I've spoken with my lawyer and it appears that I've already served all the time I'm going to have to serve for this offense. The most I'm looking at is some probation. So you think you're sitting there from the supposed anonymity of the internet belittling somebody, like you know what's going on and you don't. So stop it.
              [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
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                  Sorry to hear you got screwed... dunce
                  by jayleigh(fuckyou@dontbugme.com)
                  gfd messagesAIMYahoo
                  on Mar 26, 2005 06:11:22 PM
                  (#18140)
                  But just because I'm not posting on here what the specific offense was doesn't mean I screwed my man over in even remotely the same way. I would never do that to him because I love him. If you simply must know why he's facing years and I'm not, all you have to do is read the original GFD carefully. It clearly states that he already had outstanding warrants in other jurisdictions. He is at least a two-time felon, while I am merely a first offender. Now once again, for the last time, stop comparing a person you don't even know to the people who got one over on you in real life. I would never do anybody like that. Don't put me in the same category.

                  PS- you are very rude.
                  [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
              [aside] (For the record,
              by splansing(suck it)
              gfd messages
              on Mar 25, 2005 03:43:00 PM
              (#18132)
              you did say you would dump her like a bad habit if you were her boyfriend, and generally degraded her initially...so she probably felt obligated to respond with hostility... I'm just saying is all... Don't you hate it when people say that? "I'm just saying, is all..." As if I am not supposed to get pissed off about something that (obviously) you are saying, as opposed to "just" saying... Anyway, back to the fun.)
              [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
        So your ex-husband takes you in, which gets you out of jail... thumbs up
        by chronos
        gfd messages
        on Mar 23, 2005 05:09:33 AM
        (#18087)
        And you still call him a prick ?!?

        And you don't even give him the courtesy of a little action? He should have left your unappreciative ass in the slammer.
        [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
          Well... dunce
          by Thwack(trainedfighter@headbutt.net)
          gfd messages
          on Mar 23, 2005 06:55:03 AM
          (#18088)
          along with trying to seduce her, yeah, he'd be a prick. "The courtesy of a little action?" I'm busy calling her a fucking idiot right now-please don't make me have to pencil your ass in too.
          [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
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    Let me just say heartdunce
    by splansing(suck it)
    gfd messages
    on Mar 25, 2005 03:53:19 PM
    (#18133)
    that my friend Jerry would love to hear from you. He may be able to help you out if you like. Yeah, he's in Cincinnatti, I believe. Look him up; I think he'll agree that you would be perfect for his program.

    What? Oh! No, it's not a social study or some sort of anti-depressant drug study program. My mistake, for not being clearer.

    No, I'm talking about Jerry Springer. It's a television show, and he has people on with your kinds of perfectly reasonable problems, and tries to help them. He usually does his guests a LOT of good, I'd say.

    Best case scenario, maybe the three of you could kill each other and do us all a favor.
    [Reply to this comment]
      You should know all about the program...
      by jayleigh(fuckyou@dontbugme.com)
      gfd messagesAIMYahoo
      on Mar 25, 2005 07:08:29 PM
      (#18134)
      In fact, wasn't that you on his show last week when you found out your "girlfriend" was actually your "boyfriend"?
      [Reply to this comment]  [Parent]
      That's not fair heartheart
      by Clambo
      gfd messages
      on Mar 25, 2005 07:19:06 PM
      (#18135)
      Her spelling and grammar are much too good for Jerry. The only way Jerry would let her on the show would be if she weighed 350+, were missing some teeth, were a bisexual white supremacist, and could say things like
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    (#30526)
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    2)Do not go live with an ex-husband who is clearly still interested in you and expect him to not make a move on you.

    3)Do not place a rant on GFD where you look like a flaming idiot, mostly because everyone on here is more than willing to point it out you in the most vicious way possible.
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