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relationships Makes you wonder if everybody sucks ass
by riotgurl84
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on Jun 1, 2005 12:01:20 AM

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As of 2 months and one week ago I was engaged to a loser!!!!!!!!!
 
2 years ago I met the man of my dreams, a punk rocker with a semi soft side. It was seriously lovey dovey love that people dream about. Or the kind you only see in the movies. Well after 4 months of this we were engaged and were doing the kind of stuff all engaged people do "wink" "wink". I was absolutely smitten with him. His family loved me, my family loved him. One day I got a hold of his phone and thought i'd mess around with it for a while. And looky there text messages from lots of other girls about non-friend sex stuff!! Now I asked him about it and he came up with some lame ass story and of course I believed him. Well after that I kept hearing stuff and reading stuff that all pointed to he was cheating on me. I confronted him yet again and of course it was the same lame stories and the same load of BS. And yes dummy me belived him.

Did i mention I payed for everything and a month before he dumped me I bought him a 500.00 guitar!!! Well then we had this big fight and we kinda broke up. You can imagine how upset I was. Then the next day we got back together but also the next day I found out that there was a girl moving into his appartment and I didn't even know about it. Now as his girlfriend/fiance you think he would tell me something like that. He didn't!! I found out from my other friend. So 2 days later he dumped me, and I had myself convinced that they were just friends. He said we would prolly get back together he just needed time. Well about 2 weeks later I find out from a different friend that him and this WHORE are engaged. Now when I confronted him this time he denied it. The next night I hear from a former friend (who back stabbed and double crossed me) that they were. When I called him this time he admitted it and said he had loved since the 7th grade, and he was waiting for her and her boyfriend to break up before ever started going out. I guess I really meant alot to him.

Well last weekend we hang out and basically he would've cheated on her with me, if i had let him. I kept thinking if I do this i'll be just as big of a whore as her. And if can do this to his so called "I loved her since the 7th grade bitch" what was stopping him from doing this to me when we went out.

Are all people like this??? It really makes me wonder if all people suck ass.

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    Yes
    by bwc
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    on Jun 1, 2005 10:32:55 AM
    (#18713)
    People suck, and will walk all over you if you let them.

    I would suggest learning from the experience not to be so naive and self-sacrificing in the face of suspicion, but women who go for guys like that usually make a pattern out of it.
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    ub0wn3d
    by jsc(root@real.com)
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    on Jun 1, 2005 03:03:24 PM
    (#18714)
    Wait...huh? You knew he was cheating on you and you still paid for everything, and bought him a $500 guitar?

    ...are you still available?
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      Stupid Me
      by riotgurl84
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      on Jun 2, 2005 01:00:14 PM
      (#18723)
      No I bought the guitar for him about a month before we broke up. I didn't know 4 sure he was cheating on me then. I actually wasn't sure until after we broke up. And yup i'm still available...
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    Women are dumb
    by Cornelius(Fucked@TheCornHole.com)
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    on Jun 1, 2005 03:24:40 PM
    (#18715)
    There are two possilbe reasons why guys do this:

    - We can get away with it.
    - We don't care if we are caught.

    I imagine he was thinking reason 1 and maybe a little of reason 2. Guys can't turn down pussy. Especially if it falls into your lap. Until women wise up, this will continue to happen. Not that a woman is incappable of doing this to a man. It is just FAR less likly.
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    Lesson learned? gold star
    by bean
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    on Jun 2, 2005 04:12:25 PM
    (#18728)
    Can't say I feel too bad for you.

    First off, a punk rocker with a sweet side? Sounds like an act to me. I've never heard anything but horror stories from women that dated guys like that. To your face they are sweet and caring but "out of sight, out of mind" applies for these creeps. But now, hopefully, you are wiser.

    Four months? And you are ready to commit to this guy? Am I missing something here? No wonder marriage is such a sham. Everyone thinks within 5 minutes of meeting someone, that they should marry them. If you want to get involved in a messy legal situation find a more fruitful one, like real estate. And avoid marriage until you accept the fact that you could wipe the shit off this man once he loses control of his bowel movements in old age.

    You believed him?! Hahaha. Well, we all make the first mistake sometime. Just don't repeat it. Trust your god damn instincts. It's one thing to be a paranoid freak but it's another to be a doormat. For him to flirt and be interested in whores is basically normal. I'm sure you do the same to varying degrees. But with everything there is a line, make sure next time you make it clear.

    All in all, you were the doormat. You got fucked over completely. I suggest vandalism if you are still really sore about it. Otherwise, get over it and hopefully you learned something.
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      Mathematics thumbs up
      by Spanker(munsterinthedark@hotmail.com)
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      on Jun 5, 2005 04:15:20 AM
      (#18741)
      Are people complicated, often misunderstood, quite more complex than most numbers?
      Yes.

      Does this mean they can't be forced into a simple equation?
      No.

      Person who practices something seemingly contradictory to what he feels is generally full of shit. (He) probably doesn't know (him)self and probably isn't ready to be a human to anyone else.
      Unfortunately, it's easy to become entranced in people like this, women and men, because for some dumb fucking reason we think it equates to them being 'interesting.'

      No.
      It equates to idiocy.
      Don't think anything else.
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