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relationships ungrateful ass stupid boyfriend
by MissBitch
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(gracylucy@earthlink.net) on Nov 5, 2002 11:58:18 PM

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Welcome to my personal hell!
 
After several months of supporting my stupid ass boyfriend when he didn't have a job, he wants to control my every move. For nearly 6 months I have gone to school full time and held down a full time job while my boyfriend decided to go to school and not find a job. After plunging me several thousand dollars into debt he decides to get a job as I have no money left. So he's hot shit now that he's working and he wants to manipulate my every move. He wants to say that I have a bad attitude. Well that's a big "no shit"! Maybe it's because I can't even go see him without bringing him something or doing him a favor. I get no appreciation. All I get is repeated threats to leave me if I don't do this or that. All I ask from him is someone to talk to about how miserable life is but I don't even get that. All he wants to do is bring me down and make me think I can't find anybody else. Tell me is this what Love is? If it is then I might just look into a hateing relationship. I have given him everything and he can't even give me the reassurance that he will be there for me. After all the hard times I've seen him through, all I get is a ultimatum, if my attitude does not improve I can be replaced. Someone please tell me, what kind of shit is this???

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    Um,
    by TheChisa(come@me.bro)
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    on Nov 6, 2002 08:00:31 AM
    (#2134)
    you should change your name to MissDUMBBitch if you stay with this clown.
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    That would be shit
    by GFDman(mike at godfuckingdamnit point com)
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    on Nov 6, 2002 10:29:58 AM
    (#2135)
    of the "Bull" variety. Don't take that...
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    Bullshit is the kind of shit this is
    by GMFTatsujin(Ask and ye shall receive)
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    on Nov 6, 2002 10:35:55 AM
    (#2136)
    Yeah. Drop his ass, the fucking leech.

    What does this guy do for you? Why are you into him enough that you'll become his doormat? Seriously -- why do you love your boyfriend?

    You come up with some answers to that and then you can figure out what's worth what.

    I'm bewildered by the concept of shouldering debt being part and parcel of relationships, and it is to my infinite joy that I've married someone who can manage her fucking bank account. You always think that a little loan here, a hefty purchase there, something you'll split the bills on will work out because you *love* each other, right? WRONG, DUMBASS. Sounds like somebody's getting taken for a ride.

    The big thing that you're supposed to wait through marriage for used to be sex, but c'mon folks, This is the 21st century. These days, it's *got* to be your PIN number. Not until I see a ring on my finger, sparky. That's real fucking commitment.
    GMFTatsujin
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    uh wtf?
    by bean
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    on Nov 6, 2002 12:57:41 PM
    (#2138)
    you let this guy drive you into debt for how many months? sounds like around 6 or more from your story. WTF!! are you a masochist? or just fear being alone?
    gah.
    i see this story far too many times from girls ane guys alike. some pathetic loser finds a gullible kind person and it begins. yeah. grant it, love can make you do a lot of fucked up shit. but seriously. at least you seem to have noticed it and are re-examing your situation. good for you. most people dont even get to that stage.
    and to add to the advice already given. get rid of the zero and find a hero.
    unless you like that masochistic head game shit.
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    I'm starting to think
    by GFDman(mike at godfuckingdamnit point com)
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    on Nov 6, 2002 01:51:33 PM
    (#2144)
    that we need to start a GFD-like dating service. How about "www.tiredoffuckingassholes.com" ?

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    Fuck that.
    by illsorted(illsorted@f.e.a.st)
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    on Nov 6, 2002 02:19:11 PM
    (#2145)
    Pawn all his posessions and kick his ass to the curb!!
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    You do stupid things, right?
    by Gribble
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    on Nov 6, 2002 05:01:09 PM
    (#2148)
    You know you're doing them, but there does not seem to be a compelling enough reason to make a change.

    Well, think of this; the only person in this world who is responsible for looking out for your welfare is you. I know you want someone else to think of you, we all do. But that's not reasonable, it's a product of our egos. Sure, you love someone. I'm in love right now. But I have to recognize that it's still my responsibility to make sure that my needs are taken care of, and it is his responsibility to do the same. He's been in a rough spot lately, and I could do what you have done; help him out, go into debt, give him money where he needs faith. But that's the thing - he'll be all right, he's an amazing man. And there is no way putting that kind of shadow over this love is a good idea. It's my faith in his ability that's important, and one of the reasons I love him is that he holds that faith as the most valuable currency.

    Jeeze, I got all gooshy. Sorry.

    So I'm not going to be mean to you about it, but I am going to be straight up. The stuff you bitched about isn't all there is to the relationship, or you would have bailed long ago. So the good stuff, the laying on his chest smelling oranges on a Sunday morning stuff, that's gotta be pretty good. He's shown you who he's going to be. People don't change, not enough that in ten years you'll be with a man that appreciates you.

    Now maybe the good stuff is good enough for sticking around despite that. If it is, ok. Make your choice with your eyes wide open, knowing who you love and what he's really like.

    But if you do that, you can never bitch about it again. Because who's fault is it that he ignores you and takes you for granted and drives you into debt?

    It's all you, honey.
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    out with him
    by seanw(108khz.com@canova)
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    on Nov 7, 2002 01:09:54 AM
    (#2158)



    you should dump him, and date me instead
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      and then... thumbs up
      by dattaway(dattaway@dattaway.org)
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      on Nov 7, 2002 06:03:55 PM
      (#2174)
      after you get done dating seanw, let me show you the sites around town. Life was meant to find your potential. But the sponge you are dating now should go his own way and explore his fantasies. Let him get to know his hand better.
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    on Nov 7, 2002 08:08:48 PM
    (#2177)
    You should give his ass the steel toed boot.
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